Mm. I was raised to imperturbable. Your battle will be uphill.
[He buries a hand in her hair and presses a kiss to her lips.]
We'll have fun. I'll bring home a good dinner for us all, wine, and I'll draw you a bath while I get Anders ready. Be prepared to spend quite some time with us--Anders needs aftercare, even if all you're doing is tormenting him with a vibrator. He has to be reminded how much he means to you, and you'll need it, too. He likes being held and cuddled. If you want to spend the night with us, you're more than welcome.
[He draws back a little, enough that he can look at her.]
There are a few rules that have to be followed. I'll write them down if you need me to.
First, if you hear a watchword, stop everything. I know you'll have no trouble with that.
Second, be respectful to the submissive. Don't call him names--whore and slut and the like. Don't slap him on the face. I don't like it. If you and Anders want to try something else on your own time, you are free, but in my bedroom, he is to be treasured.
Third, nothing in the bedroom that would normally be restricted to the necessary. Anders and I agree on that one.
Fourth, do not punish the submissive for any offense that occurred outside the bedroom. This is not the place to bring up any grievance you have against Anders, however minor.
Fifth, aftercare is not an obligation to discharge, but a duty to be cherished. That one explains itself.
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Date: 2015-06-02 11:37 pm (UTC)From:[He buries a hand in her hair and presses a kiss to her lips.]
We'll have fun. I'll bring home a good dinner for us all, wine, and I'll draw you a bath while I get Anders ready. Be prepared to spend quite some time with us--Anders needs aftercare, even if all you're doing is tormenting him with a vibrator. He has to be reminded how much he means to you, and you'll need it, too. He likes being held and cuddled. If you want to spend the night with us, you're more than welcome.
[He draws back a little, enough that he can look at her.]
There are a few rules that have to be followed. I'll write them down if you need me to.
First, if you hear a watchword, stop everything. I know you'll have no trouble with that.
Second, be respectful to the submissive. Don't call him names--whore and slut and the like. Don't slap him on the face. I don't like it. If you and Anders want to try something else on your own time, you are free, but in my bedroom, he is to be treasured.
Third, nothing in the bedroom that would normally be restricted to the necessary. Anders and I agree on that one.
Fourth, do not punish the submissive for any offense that occurred outside the bedroom. This is not the place to bring up any grievance you have against Anders, however minor.
Fifth, aftercare is not an obligation to discharge, but a duty to be cherished. That one explains itself.
How does that sound to you?