 NATHANIEL HOWE (36) Incredibly jaded and cantankerous noble-turned-soldier. Indulges in extravagant romance but not searching for a relationship. |
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Date: 2015-06-02 11:37 pm (UTC)From:[He buries a hand in her hair and presses a kiss to her lips.]
We'll have fun. I'll bring home a good dinner for us all, wine, and I'll draw you a bath while I get Anders ready. Be prepared to spend quite some time with us--Anders needs aftercare, even if all you're doing is tormenting him with a vibrator. He has to be reminded how much he means to you, and you'll need it, too. He likes being held and cuddled. If you want to spend the night with us, you're more than welcome.
[He draws back a little, enough that he can look at her.]
There are a few rules that have to be followed. I'll write them down if you need me to.
First, if you hear a watchword, stop everything. I know you'll have no trouble with that.
Second, be respectful to the submissive. Don't call him names--whore and slut and the like. Don't slap him on the face. I don't like it. If you and Anders want to try something else on your own time, you are free, but in my bedroom, he is to be treasured.
Third, nothing in the bedroom that would normally be restricted to the necessary. Anders and I agree on that one.
Fourth, do not punish the submissive for any offense that occurred outside the bedroom. This is not the place to bring up any grievance you have against Anders, however minor.
Fifth, aftercare is not an obligation to discharge, but a duty to be cherished. That one explains itself.
How does that sound to you?
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Date: 2015-06-03 02:31 am (UTC)From:[She smiles as he kisses her, and when he explains how things are going to go, she nods along, resting her head against his shoulder.]
Plan on me spending the night. I'll manage to cuddle Anders, somehow. I'll find it within myself. But seriously--I understand. Krem and I did some of that, so. Don't worry.
[It was one of her favorite parts, the way he'd cuddled up to her afterward, when she felt spent and empty, and filled her with kisses and sweet words.
When Nathaniel says there's a list, she starts to get nervous, and wonders if she reallyh should ask him to write it down--She's not always good at remembering stuff, and this sounds important. But as he talks, she relaxes slightly. The rules are basic enough, things she's already discussed with others before--Some details are changed, but she's not going to have a problem not slapping Anders around or getting bathroom stuff involved.]
That all sounds very reasonable, Nate. I agree.
[She curls against him, nodding. After all that stress, she was less in the mood for adventurous sex and more for dumb happy cuddles. She's sure that her mood will be quite different when the event comes, but for now...She leans against his warm bulk, finding comfort in the contact.]
I can't think of anything else to tell you--I will if it comes up. I think you cleared everything I wouldn't prefer. At least, that'll spring up.
[She hesitates. She should probably mention it, just in case.]
...Don't hit me. I don't think it'll come up, but don't do it. You can bite me until I'm bleeding, but don't hit me.
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Date: 2015-06-04 11:58 pm (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 2015-06-06 04:20 am (UTC)From:...You said you didn't slap him, right? Then it should be fine.
I'll let you know if it isn't.
[The idea of anyone hitting Anders was regularly upsetting, but if Anders was getting off on it, it should be fine. And it was Nathaniel. She could trust him.]