That is, possibly, the most graceful way I've heard someone say no. You're just afraid I'd pay more attention to the cats than my new husband.

[He wants to see Nate's face as he laughs, the way it crinkles and lights up, but this will do. Nate laughed. That's enough for now.]

We'll wear flower crowns and Purrelden will get to be the only cat at the wedding. I'm certain she'll be very glad about that.